We started with x-rays to make sure the boys were in a good position. They were both head down, snuggled together with their arms wrapped around each other. Since everything looked perfect, it was full steam ahead.
I won’t go into the epidural, because it wasn’t pretty. Most women love epidurals, but I think if you are short it can be difficult.
A short time later, Dustin slipped out easily, but things got complicated for Devin. He had a larger head and just kept bumping up against a wall. The birth canal had begun to close. I had a nurse on one side and an anesthesiologist on the other. Both pushed on my abdomen with every contraction.
The doctor was using suction. His voice got very quiet. All those nurses suddenly got very busy preparing for a possible caesarean delivery. Devin’s heart rate was monitored for signs of stress.
“How long will it take to get her under?” the doctor asked.
“Ten minutes,” said the anesthesiologist.
“We can’t wait that long,” said the doctor.
And thus my second delivery that day came by caesarean section. Devin was born about an hour after Dustin, screaming furiously and with a large purple bump on his forehead. That bump was the first of many forehead bumps, for Devin.
Thus began a grand adventure. I loved having twins, and I feel that it would be wonderful if every last baby could be a twin. They never lacked for companions. We never lacked for entertainment.
Of course it was overwhelming at times. I'm no supermom. If they were both crying, sometimes I cried too. I was thankful for five older children who were willing to help. They were my heroes. They still are.
The boys were as different as two boys can be, yet they have always been close and still look out for each other. They don’t look alike, but they both have red hair.
They weighed 7 pounds 4 ounces, and 7 pounds 5 ounces at birth. There was half an inch difference in their lengths. Even though they weighed almost the same and were almost the same length, they were built differently, had different shaped heads and different body structure.
There were so many adventures. While Devin was acquiring forehead bumps, Dustin was collecting stitches. Both boys played soccer, both played the violin.
Though these boys were raised in the same home at the same time, and shared many of the same experiences, they don’t think alike and don’t have the same dreams or interests. They were a great reminder to me that it’s okay to be different.
They changed our family forever. Since they were number 6 and 7, we needed a bigger car, a bigger home, and bigger hearts. We kept the home, but eventually we added on.
My children have always been my greatest teachers, and these boys have been no exception. I thank them for the lessons, though I haven’t always been a willing pupil.
I love my boys and wish them a happy birthday.