Grow Your Marriage by Leaps and Boundaries by Dr. Jerry L.
Cook, CFLE
Dr. Cook
believes that a happy marriage must have three things: equal power between
spouses, communication focused on the resolution of the conflict, not the
conflict itself, and forgiveness. None of us is perfect, and we all make
mistakes.
He
includes a questionnaire, assessing the boundaries in a marital relationship. Take
the test to find the areas you need to improve. Boundaries help a couple draw the
line between right and wrong and set expectations.
This book
outlines many pertinent questions that couples need to talk about in their
relationship, such as physical boundaries, emotional boundaries, social
networking boundaries, and media messages.
Dr. Cook
gives excellent examples of what a healthy discussion is like. Couples who read
the book together will learn from his examples, and they will enhance their
communication skills. He outlines how to change a conversation from attaching
each other to sharing sensitive feelings on a difficult subject in a step-by-step
manner.
I
recommend this book to newlyweds and those who have been married for years. His
techniques are very well outlined. It’s also a fun read with many examples
throughout the book. This is a good tune-up for all of us.
Happy
reading! Enjoy the improvement it will bring to your marriage! Thanks Dr. Cook!
Christy
Monson, M.A., L.M.F.T., Retired
Dr. Jerry Cook’s New Book to be released: Grow
Your Marriage by Leaps and Boundaries
Is your marriage out of bounds?
“The art of creating
life-long marriages is disappearing at an alarming pace, largely because
couples do not fully understand where (or how) to “draw the line” in a way that
strengthens the relationship. These lines drawn are the boundaries that, when
created the right way, show each spouse they are more important to the other
than anything or anyone else. Grow Your Marriage by Leaps and Boundaries
provides the tools for you to effectively create boundaries with technology,
words, and body language.”
Cook’s
new book will inspire readers to evaluate how they prioritize their marriage,
and to make changes when needed. A common theme is that the boundaries are most
useful when decided upon by the couple themselves; dialogs are provided to help
readers create, maintain, and negotiate boundaries with their spouse and
others.
None
of us are perfect, but our marriages can be perfect for us,” says Cook.
“Sometimes we underestimate the power of a positive marriage, and outsource our
best selves to those things that are least important.”
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About
Jerry Cook:
Jerry
graduated with his doctorate in family and human development from Utah State
University, and now serves as an associate professor of family and consumer
sciences at California State University-Sacramento. Growing up on a farm in
southeastern Washington state, and losing his mother to cancer at a young age,
his passion is to help others recognize the basic skills that help families
thrive. Jerry and his wife, Sarah, have been married for 19 years, are parents
of three children, and co-authored The Parent’s Guide to Raising CEO Kids. Jerry
has been interviewed by Fox 40 (TV, Sacramento), the Sacramento Bee
(newspaper), and Sacramento Smiles (radio program).